Sometimes people grow apart

I know that gaining and loosing friends is all a part of life. I don't have the same friends I did 10 years ago. I have some old and some new. People get older, more mature, they move on with their lives and sometimes people just simply grow apart. What gets to me is when you spend 18 years being someone's friend and then one day it all ends. All of a sudden you have no idea who that person is anymore and they obviously don't know who you are either. When you are friends with someone you accept them for who they are. Their faults as well as everything else. You don't punish them for being who they are and they don't make you feel guilty for things that happened in the past. In my opinion, when you forgive someone you have to let it go completely. You can't forgive someone for something and then next time you get angry, bring that situation up and punish them for it. That shows the difference between mature and immature. All I know is that recently I have seen someone for who they really are and because of what I have seen we will NEVER be friends again. She has said some things to me that I wouldn't even say to my enemy and last year we were friends. We were friends for a long time. We shared alot of secrets and she pretty much knew everything about me. It's makes me very cautious when picking my friends. I don't know who to trust and who will stab me in the back when the opportunity arises.

you know who you are.

I am sorry for what happened in the past. I accepted you for who you were, I'm dissapointed you couldn't do the same for me. It sucks that you will not be there on my wedding day (but then again you haven't really been there for me lately anyways). I am people in my life that I love and that love me. I don't need you or your fake friendship. If you keep treating people the way you have been you will be old and lonely and it will be your own damn fault.